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Thought for the day – Forgive and Forget?

Posted in Blogroll on September 28, 2008 by Princess Kelly

Now each and everyone of us has at some point in there life been hurt or upset by another person. I know i’m generalising so i’ll elaborate. At some point your heart has been broken either by love, a pet dying, a boy band breaking up or losing a relative.

But i’m talikng about betrayel. The cheating parter, the best friend who turns against you or the one person you trust more in the world lying. What i’m asking is if there really is such a thing as forgiveness?

Now if someone steps on your toe and apologises its gone and forgotten. If someone steals your parking space its annoying but you carry on with your day. The shop assistant can’t find the top you want in your particular size. It can all be upsetting but it doesn’t hurt you and you forget about it.

But what i mean is that something that can make you feel like your falling apart. The thing that shakes your world up and you feel theres no going on and moving forward. Can you really forgive?

Nearly everyone i know has had that drunken argument where everything gets dragged back up. Where the beer takes over and you’ve got a spleen that needs venting and you don’t care how you take his person down, all holds are barred and your going for the kill. Issues and events get thrown in faces and replayed. Theres crying shouting and lots of tears. An thats what i mean can you really forgive if you can’t forget??